Saturday, January 23, 2010

154 - 刘业成 (George) 转载与你分享《易中天》讲的人生智慧十句话

第一句:“人都是逼出来的”。

每个人都是有潜能的,生于安乐,死于忧患,所以,­当面对压力的时候,不要焦燥,也许这只是生活对你的一点小考验,相信自己,一切都能­处理好,逼急了好汉可以上梁山,时世造英雄,穷者思变,人只有压力才会有动力。

第二句:“如果你简单,这个世界就对你简单”。

简单生活才能幸福生活,人要自足常乐,­宽容大度,什么事情都不能想繁杂,心灵的负荷重了,就会怨天忧人。要定期的对记忆进行一次­删除,把不愉快的人和事从记忆中摈弃,人生苦短,财富地位都是附加的,生不带来死不带去,­简简单单的生活就是快快乐乐的生活.

第三句:“人生没有彩排,每一天都是现场直播”。

偶尔会想,如果人生真如一场电子­游戏,玩坏了可以选择重来,生活会变成什么样子?正因为时光流逝一去不复返,每一天都不­可追回,所以更要珍惜每一寸光阴,孝敬父母、疼爱孩子、体贴爱人、善待朋友。­

第四句:“怀才就象怀孕,时间久了会让人看出来”。

人,切莫自以为是,地球离开­了谁都会转,古往今来,恃才放肆的人都没有好下场。所以,即便再能干,也一定要保持谦虚­谨慎,做好自己的事情,是金子总会发光。­

­第五句:“过去酒逢知已千杯少,现在酒逢千杯知已少”。

不甚酒力,体会不了酒的美味,­但却能感受知已的妙处。没有朋友的人生是孤独的,不完整的,可是,因为生活的忙碌,渐渐少­了联络,友谊就变的淡了,所以,抽点时间,联络朋友一起聊聊天,让情谊在笑声中升腾,当­朋友遇到了难题的时候,一定要记得挺身而出,即便帮不了忙,安慰也是最大的支持。­

­第六句:“人生如果错了方向,停止就是进步”。

人,总是很难改正自己的缺点,人,­也总是很难发现自己的错误,有时,明知错了,却欲罢不能,一错再错,把握正确的方向,­坚守自己的原则,世界上的诱惑很多,天上永远不会掉馅饼,不要因为贪图一时的快乐而­付出惨痛的代价,如果发现错了,一定要止步。­

­第七句:“人生两大悲剧:一是万念俱灰,一是踌躇满志”。

现代的人好象特别脆弱,­报纸上天天报道众多名人得抑郁症,这些人一定是从一个极端走向别一个极端。正因为踌躇­满志,才坚信自已是完美的,是无所不能的,如果受到一点挫折,就会变得极度自卑,甚至­失去继续生活的勇气。为自己找一个准确的定位,享受生活乐趣。­

­第八句:“人生和爱情一样,错过了爱情就错过了人生”。

爱情是什么?让人无所适­从,让人神魂颠倒,面对爱情的时候,勇敢一点,大胆说出自己的爱,有花堪摘直须摘,莫待­无花空折枝。人,总会生老病死,怎么过都是一生,错过了爱情就错过了生命的精彩。­

­第九句:“天下有钱人终成眷属”。

现代社会的人变得越来越势利,爱情也越来越无足轻­重,于是我不得不相信“天下有钱人终成眷属”就对现代爱情的最确切的描述。­

­第十句:“要成功,需要朋友,要取得巨大的成功,需要敌人”。

有竞争才有发展,因为­有了敌人的存在,因为有了不服输的决心,才会努力的做好自己的事,所以,有时候,敌人比­朋友的力量更大,天下没有永远的敌人,却有永远的朋友,有些时候,敌人也可以变成朋友。­­


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Saturday, January 2, 2010

153 - thought provoking statements

1. I say no to alcohol, it just doesn't listen.

2. A friend in need is a pest indeed.

3. Marriage is one of the chief causes of divorce.

4. Work is fine if it doesn't take too much of your time.

5. When everything comes in your way you're in the wrong lane.

6. The light at the end of the tunnel may be an incoming train.

7. Born free, taxed to death.

8. Everyone has a photographic memory, some just don't have film.

9. Life is unsure; always eat your dessert first.

10. Smile, it makes people wonder what you are thinking.

11. If you keep your feet firmly on the ground, you'll have trouble putting on your pants.

12. It's not hard to meet expenses, they are everywhere.

13. I love being a writer... what I can't stand is the paperwork.

14. A printer consists of 3 main parts: the case, the jammed paper tray and the blinking red light.

15. The guy who invented the first wheel was an idiot. The guy who invented the other three, he was the genius.

16. The trouble with being punctual is that no one is there to appreciate it.

17. In a country of free speech, why are there phone bills?

18. If you cannot change your mind, are you sure you have one?

19. Beat the 5 O'clock rush, leave work at noon!

20. If you can't convince them, confuse them.

21. It's not the fall that kills you. It's the sudden stop at the end.

22. I couldn't repair your brakes, so I made your horn louder.

23. The cigarette does the smoking, you are just the sucker.

24. Someday is not a day of the week.

25. Whenever I find the key to success, someone changes the lock.

26. To err is human; to forgive is not a Company policy.

27. The road to success is always under-construction.

28. Alcohol doesn't solve any problems, but if you think again, neither does milk.

29. In order to get a loan, you first need to prove that you don't need it.

31. All the desirable things in life are illegal, expensive, fattening or married to someone else...

152 - ACIM (Right-mindedness & Wrong-mindedness)

Page 79 (ACIM - Clarification of Terms)

"...The mind can be right or wrong, depending on the voice to which it listens. Right-mindedness listens to the Holy Spirit, forgives the world, and through Christ's vision sees the real world in its place. This is the final vision, the last perception, the condition in which God takes the final step Himself. Here time and illusions end together.

Wrong-mindedness listens to the ego and makes illusions; perceiving sin and justifying anger, and seeing guilt, disease and death as real. Both this world and the real world are illusions because right-mindedness merely overlooks, or forgives, what never happened. Therefore it is NOT the One-mindedness of the Christ Mind, Whose Will is one with God's..."

Friday, January 1, 2010

151 - Your age should be a distinct asset..

Extract from this book "The power of your sub-conscious mind" written by Dr Joseph Murphy, Ph.D.D.D. Solid food for contemplation on his revolutionary vision!..

"..Your age should be a distinct asset to any organization, because of your practice and application through the years of the principles of the Golden Rule (i.e. always treat others as you would like them to treat you)and the law of love & goodwill. Your grey hair, if any, should stand for greater wisdom, skill & understanding. Your emotion and spiritual maturity should be a tremendous blessing to any organization.

People should not be shortened to the sidelines at 65 or at any particular chronological age. That is a true fact of life when they could be most useful in handling personal problems, making plans for the future, making decisions, and guiding others in the realm of creative ideas on their experience and insight into the nature of the business..."