Thursday, June 30, 2011

239 - You cannot justify not accepting or loving others - Paul Ferrini

You cannot justify not accepting or loving others. There is no one here who does not deserve your love and acceptance.

Some people may be difficult to love. They may challenge you. They may have qualities that reflect your own unconscious negative beliefs.

But that just provides you with an opportunity to make your own shadow conscious. It enables you to bring love to a part of yourself you have never liked or accepted.
- Paul Ferrini -

238 - Save Our Environment - Vegetarianism Reduces Global Warming

Hello dear friends,

Share with you an article on Save Our Environment - Vegetarianism Reduces Global Warming

In the year 2006, the Food and Agriculture Organization of the United Nations published shocking statistics about the amount of resources consumed by the meat industry:

Land:
The amount of acreage required to produce meat is twenty times the amount required to produce food for a vegetarian diet.

Food:
Nearly half of the world’s production of grains and soybeans are used to feed livestock. This supply could feed approximately two billion people instead.

Energy:
More than two-thirds of the fuel supply is directed towards the production and transportation of livestock feed.

Water:
Half of the world’s water supply is used as livestock drinking water and other feed production support, including sanitation of the facilities.

Greenhouse gas:
The amount of carbon emissions generated by the meat industry is four times the amount generated by motor vehicles transportation.

We need to take immediate action to reduce and reverse the damage inflicted on Mother Nature.

By reducing meat consumption and converting to a vegetarian diet, we can create a sustainable environment meanwhile reducing possibility of world hunger!

Never under-rate the power of being a vegetarian!

Tuesday, June 28, 2011

237 - Meaningful words of wisdom

Our Birth is our Opening Balance!
Our Death is our Closing Balance!
Our Prejudiced Views are our Liabilities
Our Creative Ideas are our Assets

Heart is our Current Asset
Soul is our Fixed Asset
Brain is our Fixed Deposit
Thinking is our Current Account

Achievements are our Capital
Character & Morals, our Stock-in-Trade
Friends are our General Reserves
Values & Behavior are our Goodwill
Patience is our Interest Earned
Love is our Dividend
Children are our Bonus Issues
Education is Brands / Patents

Knowledge is our Investment
Experience is our Premium Account
The Aim is to Tally the Balance Sheet Accurately.
The Goal is to get the Best Presented Accounts Award.

Some desirable and undesirable things:

The most destructive habit......Worry
The greatest Joy... .....Giving
The greatest loss .......Loss of self-respect

The most satisfying work....... .Helping others
The ugliest personality trait....Selfishness
The most endangered species....... Dedicated leaders
Our greatest natural resource...........Our youth

The greatest 'shot in the arm'........ .Encouragement
The greatest problem to overcome.... ...Fear
The most effective sleeping pill....... Peace of mind
The most crippling failure disease..........Excuses

The most powerful force in life............Love
The most dangerous act.....A gossip
The world's most incredible computer........The brain
The worst thing to be without..... ......... ..... Hope

The deadliest weapon.........The tongue
The two most power-filled words....'I Can'
The greatest asset.................Faith
The most worthless emotion......Self-pity

The most beautiful attire...........SMILE!
The most prized possession. .....Integrity
The most powerful channel of communication.....Prayer
The most contagious spirit ......Enthusiasm

Life ends .... when you stop Dreaming,
Hope ends .....when you stop Believing,
Love ends ....when you stop Caring,
And Friendship ends ....when you stop Sharing

Monday, June 27, 2011

236 - Email to Sen Hock and Alice Seah

Hello dearest Hock and Alice,

Wonderful morning to you. You may like this sharing!

Feel free to share and inspire each other.

Sharing is caring, we strengthen our COMMUNICATION and EXPRESSION through the process of SHARING. The more we give and share, the more we will receive. Blessings can only come to our life through the process of sharing and expression of GRATITUDE! The Universe will always respond that way with Grace and Compassion!

Remember to be determined to walk out from your box of limiting thoughts. You grow through sharing too! Hold each others hands together and to remind each others as both of you come to this world on the same journey with similar life lessons, no matter how strong your denials are.

Must practice sincere care for each others from your hearts, and NOT control, abuse or manipulate each others life!
Remember your true self is LOVE.

From the days I met both of you (Hock in 1982 and Alice 1995), I observed both of you have similar life energy, and that is why you are together to experience judging & condemning each other!.. you don't normally value and appreciate each others, you take each others for granted, and pushing each others away without knowing that you are actually pushing away yourself from your SPIRIT-SELF. This is precisely your joined life lessons. The pains have been going on for more than 10 years!..

You don't share and you also don't communicate and express. Remind yourself to regularly challenge your ego mind why you allow yourself to be 'blocked' from growth and expansion..

Also frequently challenge your ego mind as to why your life has been living within the tiny box of limiting thoughts whereby you can't even properly communicate and share with the closest beings in your life space? This breakthrough can ONLY be achieved if your SPIRIT-SELF is strong enough to over take the ego-self and that you are so determined and your desire is so powerful that you want GROWTH and EXPANSION.

One distinctive point to share with you about observing life is that if we frequently driving or orientate our mind to wearing and using branded and expensive things, in reality it does not in any way help us grow and expand. It only strengthens or reinforces our ego mind to move into the tiny world of poverty-consciousness! The ego mind always tells us that we are not good enough, and therefore we must only use and wear branded and expensive goods 'to add and enhance value' to our physical body and the materials world! The ego would also tell us to behave that way so that we are so attached and entrenched to this body and the illusion world, and forgotten our true nature!

Instead of using more money for charity and serving the highest good to support other beings, we use our money for branded and expensive things. We can truly love ourselves without using any branded or expensive things in our daily life and our consciousness must transcend and breakthrough this limiting thoughts from the ego mind.

Look at the most wealthy human beings on earth (like Warren Buffet, Li Ka Shing and Bill Gate..) how simple their life is.. Warren Buffet (aged 74) is still staying in the same house he bought 50 years ago!.. I always feel how wonderful they are! Warren Buffet and Bill Gate have jointly pledged to the world that at least half of their assets have been donated to their World Foundations. Tan Sri Vincent Tan is the 1st Malaysian tycoon who had made similar pledge in Feb 2011 for his 'Foundation for a Better Malaysia Tomorrow'. Wow.. they are normally wearing ties of only around RM50 except Vincent..

Like IOI boss (Tan Sri Lee Shing Cheng), he had donated the land and also built a new Chinese Primary School in Puchong Jaya about 5 years ago. How big his heart is! Amazing beings indeed. The school now has more than 1,000 students of all races. My neighbor's son is in that school. I praise and rejoice in Lee's generosity and great sharing!

Wow... inspired by their level of consciousness, I recently keep on reminding myself about using more of my money to help other beings whenever my heart feels the calling! I am so inspired by these noble human beings on earth! I may not have their level of wealth, but I can do whatever I can with whatever I have! I can share with the world with whatever way I can!.. Sharing of intelligence, wisdom, knowledge and information are obvious examples of giving and sharing for a better world!

Like Dr Aaron Lim, he is sharing the Daily Contemplation everyday. He gives and shares tremendous amount of life energy, time and resources for the poor. Both he and his wife regularly recycle personal belongings (such as clothing and articles..) or things which have not been used for more than a year or two, by letting other people use them instead of putting in the house to collect dust and rot!..

Hock and Alice, I hope you are at ease with my sharing of inner thoughts. It is all because in my heart you are one of the closest beings in my life journey. We come into each others life with noble purpose and reason which are of highest good and we may not even understand why. I only embrace our relationships with pure love and compassion.

I wish both of you truly well. And if it brings you joy and peace, you may wish to allow me to continuously holding your hands to awaken and shift your consciousness! However I am very clear that it is never my thought at all to involve anything in your personal life!

Have a joy-filled day. Love and blessings always.

Warmest regards,
George

235 - Wow..really so true - It is all about our life!

We never get what we want,
We never want what we get,
We never have what we like,
We never like what we have.
And still we live & love.
That's life...

The best kind of friends,
Is the kind you can sit on a porch and swing with,
Never say a word,
And then walk away feeling like it was the best conversation you've ever had.

It's true that we don't know
What we've got until it's gone,
But it's also true that we don't know
What we've been missing until it arrives.

Giving someone all your love is never an assurance that they'll love you back!
Don't expect love in return;
Just wait for it to grow in their heart,
But if it doesn't, be contented it grows in yours.

It takes only a minute to get a crush on someone,
An hour to like someone,
And a day to love someone,
But it takes a lifetime to forget someone.

Don't go for looks; they can deceive.
Don't go for wealth; even that fades away.
Go for someone who makes you smile,
Because it takes only a smile to
Make a dark day seems bright.
Find the one that makes your heart smile!

May you have
Enough happiness to make you sweet,
Enough trials to make you strong,
Enough sorrow to keep you human,
And enough hope to make you happy.

Always put yourself in others' shoes.
If you feel that it hurts you,
It probably hurts the other person, too.

The happiest of people don't necessarily have the best of everything;
They just make the most of everything that comes along their way.
Happiness lies for
Those who cry,
Those who hurt,
Those who have searched,
And those who have tried,
For only they can appreciate the importance of people
Who have touched their lives.

When you were born, you were crying
And everyone around you was smiling.
Live your life so that when you die,
You're the one who is smiling
And everyone around you is crying.

Please send this message
To those people who mean something to you,
To those who have touched your life in one way or another,
To those who make you smile when you really need it,
To those that make you see the brighter side of things when you are really down,
To those who you want to know that you appreciate their friendship.

Friday, June 24, 2011

234 - So True - Sharing of Wonderful Thoughts

Heavy rains remind us of challenges in life. Never ask for a lighter rain. Just pray for a better umbrella. - That is attitude.

When flood comes, fish eat ants and when flood recedes, ants eat fish. - Only time matters. Just hold on, God gives opportunity to everyone!

Life is not about finding the right person, but creating the right relationship, it's not how we care in the beginning, but how much we care till the very end.

Some people always throw stones in your path. It depends on what you make with them. A Wall or a Bridge? - Remember you are the architect of your life.

Search for a beautiful heart, but don't search for a beautiful face, because beautiful things are not always good, but good things are always beautiful.

It’s not important to hold all the good cards in life. But it’s important how well you play with the cards you hold.

Often when we lose all hope & think this is the end, God smiles from above and says, 'relax dear it’s just a bend, not the end.' - Have faith and have a successful life.

One of the basic differences between God and humans is, God gives, gives and forgives. But the human gets, gets, gets and forgets.

Be thankful and grateful for everything in life....

233 - Projecting your Fear and Shame - by Paul Ferrini

You don’t want to look at the shadow, but you have no choice. Anything that is unhealed about you will be externalized, and you will see it in the words and actions of other people who trigger you.

Your pain consists not only of your fear and shame, learned in childhood, but also of your ongoing judgments of others (projected shame) and anger at others (projected fear). That is why every judgment you have and every expression of anger must be forgiven. You can’t heal if you can’t forgive.

Every time when we find fault with another person, we are making ourselves guilty. Each one of us is judge, jury and executioner.

- Paul Ferrini -

Wednesday, June 15, 2011

232 - Drop your mask. Break through your shell of isolation - by Paul Ferrini

1. Stay out of your head. Stop analyzing, intellectualizing, or seeking to justify your feelings. That’s just a way of pushing the pain away. Just tune into how it feels.

2. Drop your mask. Break through your shell of isolation. Share your pain with others when it is safe to do so. When you have the courage to share your pain, you realize that you are not the only one who is suffering. This helps you to move through some of your shame and creates a community that supports your healing.

- Paul Ferrini -

Tuesday, June 14, 2011

231 - Our experiences are just the effects of our thoughts - Louise Hay

We create the situation and then we give away our power by blaming the other person for our frustration. No person, no place and no thing has any power over us for we are the only thinkers in our mind. When we create peace and harmony and balance in our mind, we will find it in our life.

No matter what the problem is, our experiences are just the effects of our thoughts.

All the events you have experienced in your life time up to this moment have been created by your thoughts and beliefs you have held in the past.

- Louise Hay -

Thursday, June 9, 2011

230 - Spiritual counseling

Hello brother Hock, how are you doing?

After we talked that day, trust you have done some 'soul searching'.

Yesterday I called Alice to enquire on her medical conditions. To my great shock, she was in acute emotional turmoil and depression!

As your spiritual brother, with pure love, I share the feedback with you. She is trapped in 'live or death' state! The situation seriously warrants your immediate conscience!

The emotional abuse for over 10 years is enough brother, now is a final wake-up call for you to urgently look into why you still choose to torture & abuse her as the closest being in your life. Are you sure that you really want her to end her life in this 'inhuman' way?

Brother you are LOVE. Ask yourself where is it now? I feel painful & sad to witness this cruel deed on earth!

To heal, you must remove the darkness of your 'abusive consciousness' from your mind. No other way out!

Love you always.
George

Tuesday, June 7, 2011

229 - Pain is a wake-up call - Paul Ferrini

The difficult but important truth is that you can’t heal until you acknowledge your pain, your fear, and your shame. You can’t heal until you stop hiding your negative feelings and stop pretending to be happy when you are not.

You have to be authentic to be happy. You have to take off your mask and be real. You have to come out of the closet.

Pain is a wake-up call. Therefore, feeling and acknowledging your pain is the first step in the healing process. Anything that prevents you from feeling your pain and discovering its source is an act of denial. It is an attempt to ignore the call of your heart and soul to awaken and heal.

All addictions/compulsions are a form of denial. They anesthetize your pain or help you escape from it. As long as you are an addict, you won’t feel the depth of your pain, and you will have little incentive to heal it.

Thursday, June 2, 2011

228 - Finding shortcuts to healing - Paul Ferrini

Many people try to find shortcuts to healing, but these shortcuts always involve some form of denial. They try to make the pain go away, instead of embracing it.

The ego always has a plan for our redemption that makes the wounded child jump through hoops and reinforces his belief that he is damaged goods and needs to be fixed. Of course, none of these plans work.

The only thing that works is love and acceptance. Through love and acceptance we build a relationship of trust with the child. And, gradually over time, he is re-parented and grows up healed and empowered.

This is a process that often takes years, not days or weeks or months.

- Paul Ferrini -